VI. Your relationship is going to get beat up-- but you can take steps to “Baby-proof” it

You can learn how to work together better, and to support her without losing yourself.  You can learn smart ways to fight, and tricks for keeping your team together even when the baby is screaming at 3am and neither of you has slept in weeks.  By knowing about the challenges that you and she are likely to face, you can prepare for them.